Couples and Tantra Massage: Deeper Intimacy Through Shared Tantric Experiences
As you become open to experiencing a tantra session together, you’ll find there’s a magic to it when it happens in a safe space with someone knowledgeable.
Your intimacy with each other deepens as your sexuality opens to a new world of experience. Your communication becomes bigger and more encompassing because of the depth of the experience.
The new sensations and events and sexual arousal you experience can be shared together in a new and wondrous way.
What is Tantra and a Tantric experience
Tantra is an old spiritual practice of being that uniquely combines physical, emotional and spiritual well-being. Over time, it’s become appreciated to incorporate also the sexual well-being of a person.
‘Solomon Tantra’ which I’ve founded, incorporates a scientific and modern psycho-neuobiological approach to physical, emotional and sexual well-being, as well as an overall feeling of well-being that some might recognize as spiritual.
Tantra for couples
There’s a special thing that happens when a couple experience a tantra session together with a guide, coach or service provider… or if they go on the tantric path together, they can have a shared personal growth experience that deepens their intimacy and bond as a result.
Any tantric experience a couple shares (as in, integrating the tantric approach/philosophy into their experience together) deepens their physical closeness, emotional connection, sexual pleasure and relational well-being and union.
Tantric Massage – A Gateway
A tantra massage, especially with a professional, is a great way to experience the tantra “being” as you’re able to be guided into the experience – in this case, one incorporating sensual touch with your body. This can take place in many forms – e.g. the partner observes, the partner joins and partakes, the couple is guided through, etc. There’s a vast array of possibilities it can take place because of the tremendous variability of individuals and couples.
A Tantric massage has all the benefits of massage but goes beyond a mere physical treatment and involves a variety of a meditative experience, energetic balance, sensual touch, holistic body-harmony and sexual arousal. It incorporates a holistic approach to well-being, things like emotional well-being, sexual health and development, and energetic balance.
Key Elements of a Tantra Massage Experience
Sacred Space
I facilitate a clean and comfortable, soothing and therapeutic space whether it’s at my tantra location 15 minutes from the strip or at your home or hotel. I play relaxing music so you can drift into the most relaxing and erotic experience where you feel safe, relaxed and uninhibited.
Setting Intentions & Boundaries
I’ll encourage you to communicate how you prefer and would like the session to go… or you can simply allow yourself to go for the ride and let me know if you’d like more or less of something or if you prefer something else so I can adjust the session to your [and your partner’s] liking.
Mindful Sensual Touch
You may synchronize your breathing with mine all the way deeply into your belly and down towards your pelvic floor as your body receives relaxing and sensual strokes of my touch. Your senses heighten and emotions arouse and I encourage you to honor those sensation in your body. You’re also invited to communicate those sensations if you feel like or simply allow them to eb and flow with your vocal expressions.
Energy Points Bring You To Arousal and Balance
My gentle access to your chakra points helps release built up tension in your body you may have had for days, months and often, years. I use my touch to increase the flow of energy in your body as you’re experiencing the gradual buildup of sensation and connection to my touch and your body. You may reach your climax if when you feel you’re reaching that experience.
Benefits of a Shared Tantric Experience
Emotional and Physical Intimacy
As you share a sensual and vulnerable dynamic with another person along with your partner, it adds another layer of sexual exploration that can only happen with that third-party participant or guide or professional. The dynamic can be experienced in such a vast and unlimited way, the opportunities and possibilities are endless.
Deep Sensory Awareness and Relaxation
The increased sensuality that a tantra massage brings heightens your emotions, arousal, and mindfulness with your body. This experience can manifest in many ways for different people. It can be relaxing, erotic, sexual, enlightening, healing, empowering, disinhibiting, and any of a combination of all those sensations. It’s an amazing way to relieve stress, renew your day, reset your week, or make life more rich and meaningful.
Growth and Healing
A tantra massage is such a unique experience and since every relationship comprises of individuals made up of two, there are no relationship that’s the same. Each person will experience their own personal, sexual, emotional and even spiritual growth and development as well as the partnership itself. It can be as light as a deeply relaxing session and a great reset and feeling of being renewed…. all the way to physical and emotional healing, rejuvenation, and transcendence/transformation. It’s up to you both how you’d like the experience to go.
