There’s this silly evolution to the word ‘committed’ to where its presumed to mean you’re sexually exclusive.
This then also presumes if you aren’t committed, then you have a “lack of commitment” or seen as merely fucking around or lacking seriousness and sincerity about the relationship.
Consider the following:
💕 A ‘relationship’ is merely how you interact and interface with things. Therefore you have a relationship TO everything.
There are relationships that are significant to you REGARDLESS of whether you’re sexually exclusive in which you have “commitments” you’re ‘committed’ to.
💕 A Commitment is your dedication to a particular cause, goal or intent.
💕 Therefore, because a relationship between people are COMPETELY unique because, by definition, they’re ‘individual’, you’ll agree upon different commitments based on the individual dynamics regardless of whether sex is even involved.
💕 “commitment” used in the traditional sense is implied that way because relationships in the old days were wholly about subjugation.
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